Get to ‘yes’ and ditch the compromise, here’s how….

A brilliant and amazingly effective skill of assertive people, is the ability to get to yes.  It is a powerful, collaborative and positive approach to life.  Assertive people are superb at getting to yes, they are influential and organised, they get things done, the right way for them and for others.  The outcomes are a … Continue reading Get to ‘yes’ and ditch the compromise, here’s how….

Take back personal power: how to resist being influenced

  I published a blog-post recently on how to use Cialdini’s ‘Six Principles of Influence and Persuasion’ to influence more effectively at work and now it is time to tackle that rather elusive area of resisting influence, so that I can get on with the job (or whatever I am doing that’s important to me) … Continue reading Take back personal power: how to resist being influenced

How to influence others when you have no direct authority over them

While I am very sure much has been written to explore the ‘Six Principles of Influence and Persuasion’ (by Dr. Robert Cialdini) in practice: to criticise and debunk their simple or superficial nature, I have to admit that I rather like them for that very reason: their simplicity and because they appeal to my sense … Continue reading How to influence others when you have no direct authority over them

Shake my hand – that likability factor in influencing others

  I was listening to a very interesting and absorbing interview this morning on RTE Radio I with Martin McGuinness.  Now, before I go any further, I am not a member of any political party, nor do I want to be. I am a quiet voter who normally votes for individuals rather than parties: such is … Continue reading Shake my hand – that likability factor in influencing others